Agony Aunt

Desperate times...

Dear Lilu

hi there hope u can help me, i'm desperate. i dunno what to do my boyfriend has an unhealthy obssesion with women. he only looks at fit girls and the other day he embarresed me by whisteling at a 15yr old whilst driving my car. He also yells out the window show us ur flaps or pink bits it got so embarrasing i keep making excuses not to go out in car with him.

What am i to do i have tried explaining how i feel but he says if u dont like it i find sum one else

do i leave him? do i just put up and shut up? or do i do something sinister as revenge? plz help me b4 i do something i regret

the desperate women

Hello there Desperate Woman,

Well this is a common occurrence in most men although most of them tend to chase older woman rather than Jailbait!!! Having had quite a bit experience on this subject all you can do, if you want to keep your man, is do as he does. It makes a man feel like a man to shout obscenities at women – I don’t entirely know why because quite honestly they look like utter prats doing it.

Men tend to shout and wolf whistle at woman they know they cannot get (known fact), so my advice to you is to shout and wolf whistle at guys you know you can get. By that I don’t mean shouting at 15-year-old boys but at men, hunky men!!

This, in turn, will either work and he will stop, or he will carry on, because if he thinks you can do it then in a way you have given him permission to carry on. Don’t get mad get even!! That’s what we women are best at after all. If none of this works then throw him to the curb and go get yourself a better man.

Hope this helps, let me know how it works out.

- Lilu