Agony Aunt

That age old problem

Dear Lilu

I have been with my girlfriend for 18 months now and am keen to have anal sex with her, however she now thinks that I have gay tendences and refuses to experiment - how do you suggest I get round this ?

Yours
Freddie

P.S I think you have great tits x

Dear Freddie

Thanks, I think my tits are great too.....

Gay tendencies huh? Sure you aren't gay? See unlike me not all girls like anal sex they find and feel that it's too personal.

You cannot plan anal sex it's one of those things that happens in the heat of the moment. Don't go on about it all the time and she will think that you have gone off the idea. When you're in the throws of passion just subtly start grabbing her ass make her feel that that is the sexiest part of her body.

Start with little things like slowly rubbing you finger around her bum hole. Start off small, make it a gradual thing, and just don't do the whole guy thing and think that once you do that that you can just plunge it in. If all else fails find someone that will let you do her up the arse, there are plenty on the internet!

Good luck and let me kow how it goes.

- Lilu